Somewhere I'll never be.

I’ve been thinking about what it means to be a writer, not in the sense of success or craft, just in terms of what actually happens. What we make.

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Recovery Theater

If you leave a twelve-step adherent alone in a room with a bottle and no escape, they will drink. Not because they crave alcohol, but because they cannot bear to

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It's not Just Data.

We used to be protected by friction. If someone wanted to know what you said, they had to be there. They had to listen. They had to care. That effort, the act of witnessing, was part of the social contract. You could speak freely because you trusted the weight of the moment would carry your meaning.

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Thoughts on wisdom

I don’t internalize wisdom because I hear it; I internalize it because I live it.

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Cooking Up Hard Lessons

In early 2004, I returned to Oregon seeking a fresh start after two dark years shaped by hopelessness and bad choices. Alongside Ed, a sociopath to the core, I’d

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Forward Together

It feels like we're moving at warp speed, the world spinning faster than we can keep pace. The future looms, a vast unknown, stirring our collective anxiety. It&

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